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George Gurley 1987-1989 The Observer is born. I was still in college. In the summer I interned at CV (Career Vision) magazine, which was started by my then-stepfather, Shelby Bryan, and Marian Salzman, the editor in chief. I fact-checked and interviewed...

In 1993, Danny Resnic was having anal sex during a casual hookup in Miami Beach when his partner’s latex condom broke. Resnic had been using condoms ever since the man he describes as “my best friend and love of my life” died from AIDS in 1984. “I have...

           —What If My Kids Ask About My Own (Past or Present) Sex Life!?— From ST: I like this research column. It makes me think: My parents didn’t talk to me about sex. I’ve made alot of mistakes...

Pornography addiction is being described in the US as ‘our newest and most challenging mental health problem’, but despite the numbers of people suffering serious consequences from habitual porn use, few therapists feel confident addressing their concerns...

What is a fantasy? Thinkers from Freud to Ludacris have taken up this question, calling it both an escape from reality and an expression of hidden desires. In culture, fantasy works like a mirror: It reflects who we are, but it also shapes what we become...